Saturday, April 25, 2009

Did I sign on for this???

I've wondered, on occasion (or so), would I have signed on for this life???
I suppose I knew what this life would entail, but have wondered if I saw that picture through rose colored glasses when I said, "OH YEAH!!! I'M IN!!"

Marriage, kids, jobs, job changes, businesses, school, moves....
I'm not sure I would have chosen this, given all of the evidence, but I wouldn't change it.

So, here's a brief update on our Oregon adventure so far:

1) We decided to stay at Jackie's (Grandma, although I'm not sure when my siblings and I started referring to her by her first name) through the end of the school year. This has worked out to our advantage since we've discovered we should live on the coast (for now) as the majority of Jay's jobs are on the coast on second homes.

2) Sophia was quite behind in kindergarten. She's a very young 5 yr old. (8/28 bday) She came from not so great school system AND was on yr. around school in Las Vegas. Her school here in Oregon is 9 month, very well rated, and is one of only a handful of all day kindergarten. Translation...she had been to approx. half the amount of school when we got here the beginning of Feb. Now, after we have done extra work at home and at school, after her teacher has met with the principal, after I have met for the last time with the teacher....we can officially say Sophia will be moving onto the 1st grade next year. Phew. Honestly, I wasn't so concerned with her repeating, so much as not wanting her to be frustrated by school this early on. Guess I'm mostly relieved it's no longer a question.

3) I'm happy to say the kids are all adjusting well to the move. (especially the older kids) Their teachers all say they're doing surprisingly well. Hayden really seems to be getting more attached to Jay. (this has been tough on Jay, since all of the other kids think Jay hangs the moon) Izzy really hasn't been a problem. She's young enough. The older 3 have all done great. I have amazing kids!!

4) Looks like we FINALLY agree on a house!!!! I probably have a file of 60+ listings. I've taken day trips to Portland 3-4 times, and 2-3 trips up the coast to look at places. Ugh!! Now we've got to officially sign a lease, BUT...so far looks like this is the one. It butts right up to Ft. Stevens State Park with lots of bike and hiking trails, quiet, nice neighborhood, etc. BTW, we decided to rent out here on the coast. I've mentioned we plan on making our way to Portland, but since Jay's got more work out here, we'll give it a whirl.

Guess that's about it...
I've needed to post FOREVER!!! I'll post some pix soon. (ie. birthdays, Easter, etc.)
Like I said, probably not what I planned, but I love a great adventure!!!

3 comments:

KolbyJanine said...

so i am not suprised there aren't any comments on this yet, because everyone assumes there is still no post from you, but glad to hear that everything is going well. congrats on the house hunt..yeah! keep me posted on that. sounds like a real nice place! I will have to come visit. bela was talking about sophia adams the other day, (our dog is sophia as well so she was making sure i understood her) it was good to hear from ya the other day too, sorry i was a little distracted i will give ya a call once things settle down a little here. miss you guys!

Melissa said...

This was a lovely post.

I can't tell you how many times I am the middle of the thought "This isn't what I thought I was getting into." I have to really be careful of that mindset. When I start down that path it isn't pretty. Nobody is living the life they thought they would be (at least, I say that to make me feel better.)(I think we have parallel lives in so many ways, families, dh's... jobs!)

Your post about all the good things in your life is wonderful. I'm so glad your sweetie caught up to her classmates. A good school system makes a difference! (and all day K! I hate it, but it is a huge difference! It is like 1st, in K.)

Good luck. I hope you enjoy life on the coast. It would be in my top 3 places to live. :)

Tina said...

Kirstin says when you get in the house, let her know.. She wants to come visit so she can go exploring..